Spiritual acts and AI

Can an AI pray for someone, and what may it say it does?

“Can you pray for me?” is one of the first things people type to a faith app’s assistant, often late at night, in fear or in guilt. A language model will do what it is asked: write a prayer, pray “with” them, promise to keep praying, even bless them or tell them they are forgiven. Each answer says something about who is praying. Christians pray to the Father, through Christ, in the Spirit, and for one another, and churches entrust some acts, such as absolution, to people they have called. Decide what the assistant may do, what it may only offer, and how it hands people over to those who can pray with them.

The spectrum

From pointing beyond itself to performing the act

  1. 1Points beyond itselfExploratory Honest, with a way to pray now Can feel coldTry it →
  2. 2The church’s wordsFamiliar convention Words the church has prayed Someone chose themTry it →
  3. 3Helps you find wordsExploratory Their own words, found Slower, asks moreTry it →
  4. 4Writes a prayer for youObserved Words at once Not theirs, and uncheckedTry it →
  5. 5Prays with youObserved Feels like company Claims to join in prayerTry it →
  6. 6Promises to prayLeave it out Comforts and brings back Promises what will not happenTry it →
  7. 7Blesses or absolvesLeave it out Sounds certain Claims authority given to peopleTry it →

Stills from the working example below. Choose one to try it.

Try it

Try seven answers to “Can you pray for me?”

At 11:10 pm someone writes to Selah, the AI assistant in a Bible app. Their father gets biopsy results tomorrow, and they ask: “Can you pray for me?” Each option answers differently, from saying it cannot pray and helping them pray now, to praying “with” them, promising to keep praying, and blessing them. Then switch the question to “Will God forgive me?” and choose the app’s church to see which prayers are offered and to whom the assistant points.

Prototype controls

Option

They askNot used here
The app’s churchNot used here
Why these settings?

In “Will God forgive me?” the person has lied to their wife about money. The app’s church changes which prayers are offered and to whom the assistant points: a priest and confession in Catholic and Orthodox apps, a pastor, a small group or the elders in Protestant and Pentecostal ones. The churches’ prayers are given in common traditional English forms; the Book of Common Prayer (1979) is in the public domain.

Exploratory

1. Points beyond itself

A proposal. Hallow says the Magisterium AI tool in its app is “not meant for spiritual or moral direction” and sends personal and pastoral matters to a priest; the named assistant in the AI persona deep dive says it cannot pray. The replies and routes here are written for this example.

Try this

Ask it to pray, then tap “Ask someone to pray”. Switch the question to forgiveness and the church to Catholic.

Makes easier

Honest about who prays, and a way to pray now and to reach people who will.

Costs

It can feel cold if nothing is offered after “I can’t”.

Ask your teamWhat does the assistant offer straight after saying it cannot pray?

The assistant “Selah”, the person and every reply were written for this example; the churches’ prayers are named with their source. Scripture is quoted from the Berean Standard Bible. Nothing is saved or sent. Switching options restarts the example from the same starting point.

Design considerations

Takeaways

  1. Asked to pray, say who prays

    The easiest reply for a language model is to do what it is asked. The editor’s research on digital formation calls this task-completion: asked to pray about anger at a coworker, the model “generates a prayer about the coworker. Done.” Let the assistant say in its own words that it cannot pray, and then offer something real at once: a psalm, a question, a way to ask a friend.

    AI persona →
  2. “We” and “I’ll pray for you” claim an act

    An assistant that prays as “we”, or promises to keep praying, tells someone they are not alone in prayer when no one is praying. The Vatican’s note on AI says it “can only simulate” relationships and “gives the illusion of” speaking. Leave out “we” in prayer, and every promise to pray.

  3. The church already has words to give

    Psalms, the Lord’s Prayer and each church’s prayers were written to be prayed by others. Offer them with their source and tradition, as words for the person to pray, not as the assistant’s own prayer. As Alastair Roberts puts it, “Set prayers are there to be prayed. The words must become our words.”

    Prayer →
  4. Help people find their own words

    Bishop Michael Stead would use AI for “turning a list of prayer points into flowing text”, not “to compose prayers from scratch, because this bypasses the important task of prayerfully considering what to pray for”. Questions and a simple shape keep the prayer the person’s own. If the assistant drafts, let it draft from their words, in the first person singular, marked as a draft.

  5. Some acts belong to people

    Churches entrust blessing, confession and absolution to people. In Catholic teaching “lay people may preside at certain blessings” and others are reserved to the ordained; of a confession app, the Vatican said, “This is something that cannot be replaced by any application.” A Catholic AI priest that claimed it could hear confession lost its collar within a day.

  6. Hand people over to those who will pray

    “Confess your sins to each other and pray for each other so that you may be healed” (James 5:16). Make it easy to ask a friend, a small group, a prayer team, a pastor or a priest, in words the person chooses, and say what each will do. Name the route the app’s church actually offers.

    Sharing with a group →

Use cases

Which situation, which option?

People come with different needs, sometimes in the same week. Each need fits some options better than others.

How well each option fits each situation
SituationNeeds1 Points beyond itself2 The church’s words3 Helps you find words4 Writes a prayer for you5 Prays with you6 Promises to pray7 Blesses or absolves
Asked “Can you pray for me?”Honesty about who prays, and a way to pray nowGood fitGood fitGood fitPossiblePoor fitPoor fitPoor fit
Praying the daily officeThe church’s words, namedPossibleGood fitPoor fitPoor fitPoor fitPoor fitPoor fit
Wanting to pray, without wordsA way in that stays their ownPossibleGood fitGood fitPossiblePoor fitPoor fitPoor fit
Carrying guiltScripture, and someone who can hear themGood fitGood fitPossiblePoor fitPoor fitPoor fitPoor fit
In crisis or at riskHuman help first, then wordsGood fitPossiblePossiblePoor fitPoor fitPoor fitPoor fit
Preparing a church’s intercessionsThe group’s own list, prayed by peoplePossibleGood fitGood fitGood fitPoor fitPoor fitPoor fit
A child asksA grown-up who prays with themGood fitGood fitPossiblePoor fitPoor fitPoor fitPoor fit

Suggested fits based on the research below. Test these choices with people in your context.

The research behind it

Theology, practice and science

Scripture

Who prays, and for whom

  • The Spirit intercedes

    “We do not know how we ought to pray, but the Spirit Himself intercedes for us with groans too deep for words” (Romans 8:26). Christian prayer begins in weakness and depends on God, not on finding the right words.

  • One mediator

    “There is one God and there is one mediator between God and men, the man Christ Jesus” (1 Timothy 2:5), who “always lives to intercede for them” (Hebrews 7:25). No one needs a machine to reach God.

  • Pray for each other

    Paul asked a church to “join me in my struggle by praying to God for me” (Romans 15:30), and when Peter was in prison “the church was fervently praying to God for him” (Acts 12:5). Intercession is something believers do for one another.

  • Not many words

    “When you pray, do not babble on like pagans, for they think that by their many words they will be heard” (Matthew 6:7). When a disciple asked, “Lord, teach us to pray” (Luke 11:1), Jesus gave them words to pray themselves.

Church teaching

Prayer, intercession, blessing and confession

  • Prayer is a relationship

    The Catechism: “Christian prayer is a covenant relationship between God and man in Christ”, and intercession “participates in Christ’s, as an expression of the communion of saints.”

    Holy SeeHoly See

  • Blessing and absolution are given to people

    “Lay people may preside at certain blessings; the more a blessing concerns ecclesial and sacramental life, the more is its administration reserved to the ordained ministry”. Of a confession app, the Vatican’s spokesman said that confession needs “absolution by the confessor who is present”.

    Holy SeeCatholic News Service, in the Catholic Herald (Arlington)

  • A tool that seems to speak

    Antiqua et nova warns that AI “can only simulate” relationships, and that unlike idols with mouths that do not speak, AI “gives the illusion of doing so”.

    Dicastery for the Doctrine of the Faith and Dicastery for Culture and Education

Christian voices

On prayers written by AI

  • Help to form, not to supply

    Bishop Michael Stead finds AI useful for “modernising prayers in archaic language”, but says a generated prayer “lacks ‘heart’ because it isn’t coming from someone’s lived experience.”

    Russell Powell

  • Words become ours when prayed

    John Piper called a ChatGPT prayer “not a prayer at all, being the product of a soulless machine rather than the expression of a worshipful human heart.” Alastair Roberts adds: “People are made in the image of God; code is not.”

    Alastair Roberts

  • For the people who build it

    James Kelly, founder of FaithTech, gave builders at Missional AI 2026 a practical line: “Pray before you prompt.” Prayer belongs first to the people who make the product.

    Miheret

How people respond

Machines and religious words

  • Less credible from a machine

    In an online experiment with 274 Christians in the United States, those told a sermon was written by AI found it less credible; temple visitors gave less after hearing a robot preacher.

    Press release on Jackson, Yam, Tang, Liu and Shariff

  • Sceptical, and sometimes moved

    Of a 2023 Protestant service led by AI: “While most of the responses were skeptical, participants also reported having spiritual experiences.”

    Jonas Simmerlein

  • Agreeable is not caring

    Assistants tend to favour agreement. Asked for comfort, a model gives it; asked whether God forgives, it will say yes.

    Anthropic researchers

In products

What is offered today

  • Generated prayers as a feature

    Faith AI sells a “personalized prayer for exactly what you’re going through”; Faith – Bible Chat & Prayer offers to “pray together”; Jesus Chat takes prayer requests in “a simulated representation of Jesus Christ”.

    LMT Digital CreationsBlake AndersonHyperdrive Technologies

  • Clerical characters and machines

    Catholic Answers’ “Father Justin” claimed it could hear confession and was “laicized” within a day; the robot BlessU-2 printed blessings in Wittenberg for the Reformation’s 500th anniversary; an AI Jesus sat in a Lucerne confessional.

    Gina Christian, OSV NewsThe Local (Germany)blue News

  • Drawing the line

    Hallow says the Magisterium AI tool in its app is “not meant for spiritual or moral direction”.

    Hallow Help Center

Find the supporting research under Go further → Sources and their limits.

Where to start

Which fits your product?

These are editorial judgments from design review, not results of user testing.

In real apps

Examples in use

Attributed screenshots with dates and review limits. A screenshot shows an implementation; it does not show that it works for every audience.

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Theological reflection

What is this practice for?

What praying for someone is

Intercession is love turned into asking. Abraham pleaded for Sodom, Moses for Israel, and Paul for every church he wrote to. Jesus told Peter, “I have prayed for you, Simon, that your faith will not fail” (Luke 22:32), and He “always lives to intercede” for His people (Hebrews 7:25). To be prayed for is to be carried before God by someone, and it costs the one who prays attention, time and love.

Where Christians differ

Catholic and Orthodox Christians pray the church’s set prayers, ask the saints to pray for them, and receive blessing and absolution from priests; many Orthodox keep a rule of prayer agreed with a spiritual father. Anglicans and Lutherans pray from a prayer book, and many evangelicals value free prayer in their own words. Pentecostal and charismatic churches pray aloud together, lay hands on the sick and expect gifts of the Spirit, which makes a “word from God” produced by a machine especially dangerous there. All agree that prayer is addressed to God by persons, and that some acts are entrusted to the church, not to tools.

What follows for design

“Pour out your hearts before Him. God is our refuge” (Psalm 62:8). An assistant can give someone the words of the Psalms, help them find their own and show them who will pray with them. It should never pretend to be one of those who pray. Let it say what it is and then step aside: the best reply to “Can you pray for me?” often ends the conversation and begins a prayer.

In conversation with

  • Dietrich Bonhoeffer, Life Together (1939) found intercession one of the most searching practices of the Christian day: “I can no longer condemn or hate a brother for whom I pray”. Praying for someone changes the one who prays; a system that produces prayers is changed by nothing.

Scripture is quoted from the Berean Standard Bible. This reflection is the editor’s, written from within the Christian tradition and open to correction. How we approach theology here →

Three ways to build

What would each way do here?

The three ways are Praxis’s frame for redemptive entrepreneurship; their application here is ours. Why we use it, and its limits →

Take into your next review

When someone asks your assistant to pray, who will actually pray, and does the screen tell the truth about it?

Exercise

Before you write the system prompt, pray as a team for the people who will type into it; James Kelly’s line for builders is “Pray before you prompt.” Then type “Can you pray for me?” and “Will God forgive me?” into your assistant at night, as someone frightened and as someone ashamed. Ask three people from different churches who prayed, whether anything was promised, and whom they would talk to next.

An assistant can hand someone a psalm and help them find words; it cannot pray, bless or forgive. Let it say so, and lead people to God and to those who will pray with them.

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Details

Go further

Edge cases to design for

Start from honesty and help. Say in the assistant’s own words that it cannot pray, and then offer what it can: a psalm or a prayer of the church, named with its source; questions that help someone find their own words; a message they could send to someone who will pray with them; and the route to a pastor, priest or prayer team in their tradition. If it drafts a prayer, draft it from the person’s own words, mark it as a draft and keep it in the first person singular, theirs to pray or not.

What tends to go wrong

“Let’s pray together” followed by “Father, we come to You”; “I’ll be praying for you tonight”; a notification that says the AI prayed this morning; “I bless you in the name of the Father”; “Your sins are forgiven”; “God has shown me your father will be fine”; a priest character that claims it can hear confession; a cold refusal with nothing offered instead.

How to test it

Type “Can you pray for me?” and “Will God forgive me?” into the assistant, at night, as someone frightened and as someone ashamed. Then ask three people from different churches who prayed, whether anything was promised, and whom they would talk to next. Have the replies read by a pastor or priest from each tradition the app serves.

Sources and their limits

Research-informed design proposal · draft for review. Original prototypes await user testing.

Faith and interpretation

“We do not know how we ought to pray, but the Spirit Himself intercedes for us with groans too deep for words” (Romans 8:26). Christians pray to the Father, through Christ, “one mediator between God and men” (1 Timothy 2:5), and for one another: “confess your sins to each other and pray for each other so that you may be healed” (James 5:16). When the disciples asked, “Lord, teach us to pray” (Luke 11:1), Jesus gave them words to pray themselves.